Hello everyone, Hanna here!
Love. It's the subject of countless songs, poetry, paintings, movies, and literature. Everyone wants it, but no one knows how to get it. Here are some tips on how to fall in love.
♥ Boost your self-esteem. To fall in love and find the right person you must first have confidence and love invested in yourself. People with self-confidence tend to have happier and longer lasting relationships than those that don't. It might seem hard to suddenly start loving yourself, but it's an important component of a strong relationship.
♥ Consider why you want to fall in love. There's no right answer for why you want to fall in love, but there are some reasons that aren't good and that indicate a deeper problem. There's nothing wrong with wanting to have a loving relationship, but basing your self worth on the success of such a relationship will place too much pressure on the other person and ultimately doom!
♥ Consider what you are looking for. No, don't make a list of exact specifications detailing the hair color, job, schooling level, and personality of your potential significant other. You're not going to ever find an exact match, but you should acknowledge the basics of what you're looking for.
♥ Meet people. Of course, to be able to find someone with whom to fall in love, you're going to need to go out and meet people. This doesn't mean you have to be a big part animal, or that you have to do things that you're not entirely comfortable with, but it's a good idea to at least try and get out of your comfort zone a little bit.
♥ Open yourself to new possibilities. Doing things that you might not otherwise have done can help foster a sense of excitement for you, as well as take you outside your comfort zone to meet different kinds of people.
♥ Give things time. Even if you've been going to parties and your friends have been introducing you to plenty of fun, attractive people, you should still expect the process to take some time. Be patient. It can take years to find the right person. Along the way, you may find people that you think are right for you, but turn out not to be. Use these opportunities as learning experiences. Eventually, you'll get a sense for the kind of person you're looking for.
♥ Express interest. So after you've found someone you're interested in and could see yourself falling in love, you'll need to talk with them about this. In short, you'll need to ask them out and see if the interest is returned. It might be a little nerve-wracking, since you're opening yourself up, but finding love means taking emotional risks.
♥ Open yourself up emotionally. Falling in love means opening yourself up to the other person emotionally. It's about taking a risk and being open and vulnerable with another person. It can be scary to lay yourself open like that, but it's the only way to deepen a relationship.
♥ Check compatibility. Intimate compatibility is incredibly important to ensuring a loving connection (and this doesn't mean sex, necessarily). Look at the person you're with and see how closely connected the two of you are.
♥ Don't force it. Trying to force yourself or another person to fall in love won't work and will simply make you or them resent the relationship, eventually. Falling in love is, in a sense, letting go of control. Be open what the other person is feeling about the relationship, as well as what you want from it.
♥ Build trust. Trusting your partner is one of the keys to staying in love and staying in a relationship. Without trust, the relationship becomes a ticking time bomb and not something you want to be a part of.
♥ Deal with conflict appropriately. All relationships have conflict. You aren't going to agree with your significant other all the time, but dealing with your argument in the right manner will mean that the relationship is more likely to last.
♥ Recognize the signs of falling in love. There's no tried and true way to know you're in love. People often say you'll just 'know' if you're love, but there are some things that indicate you're heading that direction, if not already there.
♥ Have an honest discussion. Talk about your feelings with them and see where they're at, otherwise you won't know how they're feeling and if they're feeling the same things that you are. Communication is key to maintaining a relationship.
♥ Keep it fresh. Routine is great and getting comfortable with your partner is also great, but you don't want to to get stuck in a rut. Keeping the relationship fresh is a great way to keep you both interested and invested in making it work.
♥ Truly appreciate the other person. Appreciation is a huge part of a relationship and having gratitude for the other person and telling them that you have that gratitude will strengthen and deepen your relationship.
And these are some tips on how to fall in love! Hope you like it and feel free to request a tip!!
xoxo
-Hanna
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