Hi guys, Tijana here! If you know, I'm now doing a tip series called 'How To Deal With...' If you don't know what's that, check out my last tip.
This HTDW tip was requested by @bonniemtndog ! Hope it will help xx
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1. Ignore them.
This is very important! They are being mean because they want to make you mad. Seeing you sad or frustrated, makes them happy. That's why you need to calm down and act like you don't even care. Don't fight with them, just chill, talk with your friends, and act like they're not even in your class.
2. Be kind
That girl is annoying you so much and you just want to slap her? Be kind and nice to her. Use that method to make her confused and never show that you hate her. Then, when she sees that you don't care about her at all, she'll leave you alone.
3. Be with your friends
They understand you and when you're with them, those mean students probably won't bother you. Also, your friends are the people that can make you happy and that can help you out. Always!
4. Try to improve yourself
Get better grades, eat healhy, play a sport, learn a new skill... When they see you being successful and happier than ever, they will be so jelaous and they won't be mean to you again!
5. Tell them what bothers you
If they really take it too far and you just can't ignore it, tell them that you don't like their behavior. But, do it calmly. And never (EVER!) yell or act upset. You don't want to sound like they broke you! No! Act normal and calm!
6. Be positive
Happiness is the most powerful weapon you have! Smile, make jokes, talk with people! That will drive them crazy! And if they still keep trying to make you mad, just ignore it!
7. Don't tolerate violence
If they try to do anything that can hurt you physically, don't tolerate it! Tell your parents, your teacher and your friends. That is very serious and it's not a joke!!
That's all for now! I really hope I helped! Also I want to be a psychologist when I grow up, so your oppinion would mean a lot :)
Lots of love,
Tijana
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